That is what I'm concerned about, that she had such a great time with OM and she is continuing to spend more time with him today. She could also have had a bad to poor time with OM and it might not have been good at all, or somewhere in between.
I'm thinking I can't control any of that right now and I won't know and I won't ask because I'm confident in myself that I am a great person, interesting, and fun.
Being a babbling brooke is a huge 180 for me so I do need to talk a lot about myself and in detail. About what I've been doing, what my interests are, what is going on with my life, my family, my friends etc. This is what friends do, they talk and share about themselves. This is what she has said she wants, a friend, her best friend back. Mysterious was not working, she just felt ignored.
As her best friend, I will share all of these things with her. I will not necessarily share my deepest feelings and thoughts with her about us or her. Those things only my friends here get to hear.
My goal here is to have her leaving thinking, wow, it was really fun to see him. Maybe even more fun that what I have right now. Make myself more attractive to her than what she has just experienced.
BTW - As skittish as she is talking about OM openly, she will say stuff like I got back late last night so I'm trying to organize myself. She called me to confirm about tonight, when last week she said I'll just come over. Can't read too much into this, but she might feel safer talking about these things openly now and she might have wanted to test my reaction and her reaction to me today.
