Trulybl,

I'm new here myself, so I don't have much to offer except sympathy and compassion. Like you, I have only been married a short time (2 years this month). I said some things to my W out of anger and frustration and lost my temper a few times. I asked her to spend some time at her parents' house, which she did. She came back for a few days then came with a moving van and took all her stuff. Haven't seen her in two months and haven't heard anything from her in one month.

Being the LBS is very hard, but it's even harder with the regrets of knowing you didn't act the best you could/should have.

I just joined a few days ago, but am already getting some relief and help from this forum. Also, reading the DB book was helpful and I've had a couple of DB coaching sessions. There seem to be lots of people on this forum who are very generous with their honesty, experience and time. Take advantage.


Me: 39 W: 46
D: 7.5 S: 5
SD: 16 SS: 12
T: 2 (06/2012)
M: 2 (12/2012)
Separation 09/2014. No talks of D yet. No communication since 10/3/2014