Wife having emotional affair part 4

[3kids]

PM thank you so much for making me go back through my posts. I just noticed some things very interesting. Every time before OM comes back into town, one or two days, she try's to start a fight with me. Sometimes successful and some times not. If she does succeed there is no contact the whole time he is here. If she doesn't she tried to make contact. The week before he comes back every time she gets very emotional and upset. Whether it's missing the kids or life or whatever. During this time if I go no contact she gets very angry, if I answer some she becomes more curious. Just a pattern I've noticed with her and it's like clock work. With me it's the same, my pattern is if I do get sucked into the fight I start thinking more about her. If I don't, I start feeling better and moving forward. Just some thoughts I wanted to put down before I forgot.