Hi there Mozza thanks for the advice i will start to decline more,we do seem to be heading in the right direction but it will still take some time to get there,she did start out as a text book WAW for the first 2 months all she did was spew and make out i was a bad guy who never loved her, and then she started staying out all night i suspect OM It was only when i started to apply LRT that i started to get anywhere and now we have been stuck in that holding pattern for the last 4 months no ILY and no OR talk but lots of positive interactions, she still tries to push my buttons every now and then and s test me on a regular basis like tonight when i called at her house after dinner at MIL she told me she had a man in her wardrobe, i just laughed i am detached enough to not let it get to me
