What do you mean come around? This is a woman who seems to dislike me very much after suffering my abuse, criticisms, EAs, etc. There's a lot for her to get over, and I've read some women who suffer from such abuse actually have PTSD symptoms.
My W told my MIL at the beginning of this ordeal that she "wants me out of her head". My FIL told me a few weeks ago that one time he called her up and asked how she was doing. She replied, "I don't know, let me ask H." He was shocked by this--I was too when he told me, since that's never what I wanted her to feel!
So she wants me out of her head, I guess which means she wants to feel free to live and make decisions without being fearful of my criticisms, control, oppression, etc. I don't blame her, but now that she has a taste of the good, free life without my abusive influences, why would she ever come around? I do believe she still loves me: I don't see how love could simply disappear after 8 years of M, and my MIL has also told me several times that my W does indeed still love me.
But still, is there hope?
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Me: 29 W: 29 S: 7 S: 4 M: 8 BD 10/15/14 (Order of Protection) D filed 10/14 Letting God change my life. Doing the hard work to be the H my W always needed and to be the father my children deserve.
