Well it's been a long time everyone. Hope all is well with all of you...

Life continues to be great. The new guy (NG) and I still continue to do well. Our relationship is progressing smoothly. Funny how I thought my "picker" was broken. I thought I was destined to find losers for the rest of my life. But NG is a wonderful man who treats me like I deserve to be treated...with respect. It's such a concept to me and this relationship seems almost too easy. I'm still treading with caution, but I am not so much waiting for the other shoe to drop like I was before.

With EX, life is still crazy. He and Griszelda (OW) are still getting married in January, almost exactly 6 months after the D is final. S is the best man and D is flower girl. S told me D's dress is 5 sizes too large and the ugliest thing he has ever seen. I guess they are getting hitched in the town where OW's dad lives. According to what OW's ex told me, the kids have to stay in their hometown with their father since the courts will not allow them to move so OW is going to have two homes. One week she will live in my town with J and the next week she will live in the town where her kids live. I guess she will be renting an apartment?? Whatever. That's not a very peaceful life to live. But it ain't me or my kids so whatever.

D did tell me the other day her dad needed my address because dad and OW wanted to send me an invitation to the wedding. Seriously, I LOL'd hysterically when she told me that. As if... It will be a cold day in h*ll before that will happen.

Tonight D is in a production of The Nutcracker. I am going and NG is coming with his two kids. S and EX will be there as well. This is going to be interesting. I still don't think EX knows I am dating. Not that it is any of his business.

WH


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"