Give her space friend, all the space she needs...it is the only thing that will help you at this point. I am in the same situation...almost exactly.
Best of luck, you will get through.
W-43 H-41 M-19 T-21 Kids S-15 D-13 S-11 OM/EA/PA suspected 7/4/14 Talk of Seperation 7/5/14 Slept in same bed, held each other nightly until 2/1/15 W moved out 2/1/15 I am moving on