I'm playing worship tonight at Clebrate Recovery at the church, so looking forward to that.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
Interactions with the wife are all over the board. Hot, cold. Sweet, angry. Short, talkative. No contact, too much contact.
I'm so tired, today.
Perhaps I'll blog about it after while.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
My wife's aunt died yesterday. We just found out this morning. We were both fairly close to her. The kids and I got to see her this past Friday at Thanksgiving. Unfortunately the wife did not. The last time she saw her was back in Aug just before school started.
Feeling even more overwhelmed at the moment.
I mean, who on the planet, besides possibly her mother, knows how my wife is probably feeling right now more than me?
My Grandmother may not make it past Christmas.
I'm so sick of this whole thing. Right now is when we need each other, I hate doing this alone.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
I haven't dealt with the loss of a family member, but I've had my own personal health issues lately. Spent half a day in the ER last week, I know I need surgery after the New Year, I live compromised every day. It would be really great to have someone to lean on, someone to physically and emotionally lean on. We just have to be strong. Hang in there. You can do it.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
Death is a very hard thing, I am sorry for your loss.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
Remember the rock that you are standing on. When the waves come crashing in, you will stand strong, even alone when your faith is in him.
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. The greif there is very real. You do have some new skills to help deal with it however. I met a couple women last night at a divorce recovery group that dealt with being a LBS, then later were widowed after being remarried. They both are now bright shining lights in the world for the wounded. I think you are becoming that too. So glad you are getting to lead worship. Keep that up man.
FD.
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)
