Don't we have two people inside of us? Reason knows what to do, but Emotion is a screamer and often gets its way. Emotion woke me up at 4:45 am to talk about what W and OM must be doing. It had to be restrained by Reason long enough for me to fall back asleep. Of course, Emotion woke us all up at 7 am to continue it soliloquy. I wish Reason could knock Emotion out cold for a few days.
But yes Little, according to DB you need to go darker than this. Telling him you've registered for this Scrabble Club (congrats! though it's a sore point for me because W asked for our Scrabble board to play with OM... she and I never played and we're both words people) has 10% of the value of him finding out later. Now he thinks he knows all you're doing, since you keep him informed anyway -- even if it's not true, you reinforce this impression. You need to be more surprising, mysterious. You need to look more like you don't do this for him. "Wait, you've been in a Scrabble Club for a month?? What else?" I got this very reaction from W when the kids told her that they see me do my workout. Even if you don't already, it looks like you need to tell him even less. Don't turn into one of these people who always do the opposite of DB and then come her to confess as if it cancelled it out.
Good luck with the hormones!
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
