Thanks for stopping by. This question about C has been bothering me. She obviously feels as if she has done a lot prior to S. She is still holding onto that as one of her excuses to not try again I'm sure. I agree with her and validate her and need to do it again and again. Sometimes I think she needs to hear it over and over just to get an understanding, like Tal said, before they challenge their own set ideas. Christine you are right about the solution based C, gripe sessions are worthless.
I'm supposed to meet with her tonight before she leaves for the weekend out of town. I didn't ask who she was going with. Its kinda driving me crazy to think who she could be going with. I think I'm going to reschedule, my mind is swimming with so many thoughts right now. I want to be in a good place when I talk with her next. I care a lot for her, but I need to take care of myself first and get centered.
