Jim0987 #6 - starting a bit of a rebuild

[jim0987]

I go to sleep for a few hours and my thread takes an odd turn.

Isn't that just normal day to day underwear?

GGrass, yes been following your thread but I'm definitely out of my comfort zone when it comes to commenting on RHC.

I will get a plan for Christmas eve just haven't figured it out yet. More urgently I need a plan for tomorrow night as its looking like my first evening since BD where I have neither the kids nor a plan.

W seems to be in a more positive place since her visit to OM2. She was in love with him when he broke up with her 7 years ago and I know from the time she thought he was the most amazing man ever (W and I were really good friends for at least a year before we got together so I knew all about how perfect she thought he was). Its why she looked him up and she must have kept her eye on him to know he was divorced (again) and to be able to get in touch so easily. He has said in his recent messages that the reason he broke up with her is because he didn't think she was ready to settle down. This doesn't feel great for me.

I know I need to get my mind off that but its not like this will just fizzle, he ditched her and yet years later she is straight back to him.

She has taken the day off work to start packing for the move. And then is taking the kids to her mums so they can do the traditional visit to Santa's house tomorrow (first time I'll miss it).

They are back Saturday afternoon for D3s Christmas play and then we are putting the decorations up on Sunday. It will be nice for the kids but I'm torn between making it the most positive time I can as it will be the first and last time the 4 of us do this or taking the stance that says 'you are leaving so you don't get to do this'

Right back to work