It was H's bday today. I made him a yummy dinner yesterday and spent most the day with him today. I got him a cologne that he had tried a sample of and we both loved. He looked sad when I presented him with the wrapped gift but whatever. I had to work tonight and we watched some TV after I Got home. I also invited him to sleep in the bedroom with me tonight but he declined.
I'm trying not to let it bother me and let it roll off my back and not give him a reaction.

I'm noticing a lot of attention from a male friend of mine. I enjoy his flirting and interest in me but I'm not pursuing it. He knows my situation and that I'm standing. So tempting though when I'm depressed and neglected emotionally by H.

H: 43
W: 39
Married: 11 years
Together: 18 years
1st BD: 05/2014 asks for separation
2nd BD: 06/16/2014 asks for divorce
No kids
EA: 2 months, not mutual (she didn't return the feelings) over