How have you been working on detachment and GAL for yourself? I see a lot of things you listed that you are doing with H in mind and that is good, but what are you doing for yourself?
This has been one of the hardest things for me. To "let go" in a healthy manner and take care of yourself as well. Do some journaling, learn about detachment, read sandi2's 37 rules (daily if need be).


Keep yourself healthy.

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M-44
W-44
Sons- 11&14
Married- 18
Together- 27
Separation mentioned- 9-29-14
Still together, but not "together"
"if you feel rotten and forgotten,
remember there'll be better days."