THIS is where the MAGIC happens.

[ericmsant2]

Shinning

Anger IMO can be used in one of two ways...

You can use it to sit in a place of being the victim, sitting around pissed off at the world, at your plot in life, at your H, at your XH....

Or

You can use it to help push you forward. By forward...I mean living your life on your terms with an emphasis on veing happy.

Believe it or not....you can be happy and live a fullfilled life and STAND for your M.

You know you deserve better... I get that...

What though does better look like to YOU?

What does better look like to YOU right now?

When/if you answer... it should be based on things you can control.

So...Shinning.... whatcha gonna do with this anger?

I'll close with a story....a quick one...

There was an man....he worked a lot. Actually all he did was work. One day he slowed down at work...so he decided to start spending more time trying to fix things around the house. He fixed the stairs, he fixed the roof. One day while he was fixing the roof a young lady who had a crush on him asked him what he wanted to do in his life. The man came down from the roof...he responded...

I want to go to Paris

I want to feed the homeless for a week.

I would like to plant the largest tree you've ever seen.

I would like to drive a corvette across the country.

I would like to go th gracy mansion

I would like to meet Michele Weiner

I would like to own a great dane

I would like to learn how to paint

The man went on for over an hour with all the things he wanted to do.

The women asked him why he has not started to do some of the things he mentioned. He responded...I will once I complete this project at work.

3 days later the women walked by rhe house again....the man was not around. Neighbors told her that he had died yesterday of a massive heart attack.

The women was sad..

The moral of the story....

Never put off on some till tomorrow or nexy week or next month...that you could do today.

Peace
Eric