Question to everyone here. Did your WAS go to counselling with you? If so, for how long? Was it pre/post bomb? Was it pre/post S? If so, how did it come about they decided to go? Has it been helpful?
My W has seen a counselor individually for six visits and then decided she wanted a D. She went with me to the first couples counselor we were interviewing only to tell me there was no chance of anything but a D. She implies this is enough effort given by her to counseling and doesn't see the need for further counseling. But I haven't asked again since the first time over four months ago.
