It's funny how poeple can be so different, hp. I found my W fabulously attractive whan pregnant but she kept well covered up. She did let me love the babies from the outside though. I used to carress her tummy and talk to them. She would never allow any sex though and I respected that because she had two miscarriages. I was a bit freaked out by the third baby and did not really look forward to his birth. When she felt him coming I wouldn't believe it because it was a week early and I wasn't mentally prepared. She had to hit me with a heavy pregnancy book before I would take her to the hospital! Of course I loved him when he was born (he's 11 now). SD - It's sunny at last in jolly old England and I've ridden my motorcycle to work so I'm looking forward to carving up all the traffic on the way home in an hour or so. Life is great!