New here and need to know I'm not crazy

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Samiam,

I'm so sorry for the pain and hurt you are going through right now. I am going through it too, so I know how the pain of betrayal can eat you alive.

Please be thankful you have your spouse still. I wish my W was willing to work on the M, but she just moved out this week and has told me our M is over.

Your thread has just been flooded by some great posters who have a lot of advice and experience to share. Read it all closely, they have really been through a lot and helped others through a lot.

What is your H doing to work on himself? What things did you do before your M that you no longer do now? I'd love to hear more details of your last few months.