I cant say I can offer an hopes for success, in my case he has never contacted me since bd, unless I contacted first. when I applied sandis rules he doesn't contact.
I haven't seen any thing or anyone connected to him in months. Last conversation was April, before Easter. When I went dark, I refused to answer 2 phone calls he now insists I never answer his calls, he never leaves a message.
The calls were made to my home while I wasn't home, he refused to call my mobile.
The only change I see on the outside is his mate suddlenly is turning up at my work when he hasn't been in for months and he's turning up at the place we go to dinner sitting in a bar as a non drinker. Both things are odd and out of character mate acts guilty and Is unbale to speak to me in any way. once when cornered mate said hello. Both events have happened since L proceedings started. H had also been driving by at times when my son was waiting for the school bus in a clients car.
I am moving the L stuff forward as I want a clean break if he intends to stay with ow, and all evidence says this is so. I have my sights set in rhc for now, as a friend, as he has divorce issues to finalise as well.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
