PS - H responded to my inquiries about the electric bill and said he had changed what he could online but he actually had to talk to an employee there to finish it. He then went on to say we had to "meet to take care of everything else" but that he wouldn't be filing until mid-December because he's "traveling a lot for work in December and January" and so didn't know if I'd rather sign now or wait until when he'll actually be filing it. Not sure why that matters but whatever. And then ended with "Let me know if you have any questions." I actually started typing "Yeah, I do.. why exactly do you feel like this is the only answer for you?" and then deleted it before sending it :|


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final