To be honest i think its the same thing with all of them and that is to either just let it go or assertively state a boundary (please dont lie to me/please do speak to me in that manner) then let it go.
No talking is going to change anything - she will take what she wants to here from any conversation and if she doesnt hear it she will twist what i said to fit with her 'truth'
yes i'm sure, but with OM2 to confirm that i know would be to confirm her belief that i checked her phone - she hasnt said anything to me. She is off to her home town (where OM2 lives) for the next couple of days and today got home having had a haircut and purchased new Lingerie. She might not be going to see him but thats quite some prep if shes just going to her mums.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
