Well, surprise, surprise. GUBU is back to his old tricks.
He very pointedly has not communicated with me ALL DAY. I said nothing upsetting last night except my "It's a friggin party under this bus, in case you were confused about that."
No doubt HIS feelings got hurt because I suggested he might have done something wrong in his life. Therefore, I must pay.
Yeah, I know it sounds like mind reading, but really, I've been through this enough with him. He takes things very personally, thinks I'm being critical when I suggest he might think of things a different way.
And the fact is, any time I intimated that perhaps his cheating on me, lying to me, and all the rest was actually harmful to me and hurt me deeply--I WAS THE BAD GUY FOR POINTING OUT HIS 'FLAWS".
I made him "feel bad about himself" therefore, I was to be punished in some passive-aggressive way. That was our entire marriage, I can see now.
This is exactly the same.
He may think that shutting me out hurts me, but he couldn't be more wrong. All it does is show me how incredibly immature and pathetic he is, how weak and cowardly. How he is not getting better at all and it just adds to my determination to let the divorce go through.
I can't live with someone who acts like this. I just can't. And I know it's not a case that he didn't see the one text I sent saying I'd cover for him tonight because I know he has a late interview---his phone is glued to his body, and when it was OW they texted 100+ times a day.
No. He got it, and is ignoring me. Passive aggressive chit. I'm sick of this merry-go-round.
