This => "I don't really get the rules of when to join in and what is safe ground to talk about or when to stop. I push my point too far and too hard and find it very difficult to tell when i've moved from friendly banter/debate to aggressive and hurtful."
Really jumps out at me as an Aspie thing.
*** Please try and list your triggers as they relate to your W. I think that will better prepare you.
And I KNOW you can find 100 cool things about yourself!!!!!