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[Mozza]

Wonka - I really hope we can get past this. I see that you're very helpful to others on this forum and I need the help. I don't know what I can do to convince you that I'm not hiding anything, that I'm keen on learning from this. Look at posts like this one where I lay out what my W said when she left, or, even better, this one where I translated an entire email from six months pre-BD where she described her issues in the M. I've explained that I have not once critized my W since BD, I've shared sample conversations showing how I dealt with her anger without reciprocating. I don't know why you think that I'm less open than Vertex. But the length you went with that prank really hurt me, in real life. I had told you of the pain at the time, asked you to stop, yet you kept at it. To discover after the fact that you didn't mean what you said, that it was a prank to teach me a lesson... Well, I'm still reeling from it. I lost sleep and I cried a good deal, if you want to know. I know you feel justified because you think it was tough love, but I seriously encourage you never to do this again with someone else. There are other, more efficient ways. I believe it was an honest mistake and I want to get past it. In these darkest times of my life, I have little energy, PMA and time and I want to devote it to the right things. I'd be very, truly grateful for your help in this. I like what you write on other threads.