Need help to communicate with LD/ND spouse

[luvhubby]

But I'm interested in any comments and if this is the appropriate place to air my concerns.

Hello Jeffo,

You are certainly at the right place but I would suggest that you start a new thread giving more history about your M, how long you have had a SSM etc so that you receive better support. I am sure you will receive very useful thought provoking feedback from other HDHs like yourself namely, Superdave, Dave, Tim, Hairdog, some great LDW like Corri (we all love her) etc.

Looking forward to seeing your post.
LH

[slowly]

hey lh - how are you? did i miss the baby announcement, or is she/he making you wait good to see you here still slowly

[luvhubby]

Thanks for asking Slowly.

I am in "Anxious Land" right now. There are signals that labour is iminent and playing the waiting game is driving me crazy!!!!

LH

[honeypot]

I'm waiting patiently for news too, LH! Good luck and check in to let us know how you're doing...

HP

[Scott1701]

LH & HP;
I hope both of your labor's and deliveries go well. Keep us updated on status. We'll be all wishing the best for both of you and your new arrivals.

[annette]

Scott

Everytime I see one of your posts, I almost cringe

Not really, but my H is a HUGE Star Trek fan from way back. He would rather watch Sci-fi than do anything else. Its on almost 47/7. Have a good day

Annette

[Scott1701]

LOL, Annette.
Having read your posts, I understand. I would turn off the TV/VCR/DVD in a flash if offered a nice roll in the bed, as they will be there when certain parts need recharging. Your hubby's obsession with TV instead of a nice time with the spouse defies my understanding.

I hope your situation gets better.

[honeypot]

Scott,
Thanks for the well wishes! I have a long ways to go; nowhere near as close as LH.

In the first two pregnancies, my H lost interest in me as soon as I started showing. Thankfully I am the type of person who doesn't show early! I am slowly entering the stage of looking pregnant. In another month or so I will have to wear maternity clothes. Then I expect things will start to change, although maybe not. I am keeping my hopes up!

[NOPkins]

honeypot,

Here is a novel approach for you.

Next time he is ignoring you while he is watching the tv and you know he is ignoring you on purpose - saunter into the room, naked, while brandishing a shot gun. Raise the gun, point it at the tv and shoot. Look over at the spouse and say something like;
"Hey, Mr. Potato Head, take me to bed or lose me forever"

I bet that being pregnant with hormones raging, he will do just about anything you want :-)

You can always blame it on the hormones. ;-)

-NOPkins-

[SuperDave]

Quote {{{honeypot}}}: "In another month or so I will have to wear maternity clothes."
In London, pregnant women just wear normal t shirts and let it hang out for the world to see - wonderful. There is no more beautiful sight than a woman with child IMHO
SD