T, it is truly wonderful to read how well you are doing. The boys and Thanksgiving.....that's gold, right there. They will remember for years, what dad did during those tough years.

My S18 was telling me today, how much he remembers from 8 years ago. It matters.

Ummmm... I usually do (((((hugs))))....

How about an appropriate and respectful "hearty handshake"?? grin