If your husband were to realize the day (which he might, you never know) - given your stitch what would you like to hear?
On our anniversary, I would've loved to have heard, "I know things are really rough right now/we're in a weird place, but I don't regret marrying you." "Or, despite it all -- today is still worth remembering."
What I got instead was a far, far FAR cry from that. Harumph.
You could not say anything. Or you could use the opportunity to say something....(how helpful of me, I know!)
I guess the more important question is -- given your journey -- what are you comfortable conveying to your husband that matches where you are?
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15