Ss,

If your husband were to realize the day (which he might, you never know) - given your stitch what would you like to hear?

On our anniversary, I would've loved to have heard, "I know things are really rough right now/we're in a weird place, but I don't regret marrying you." "Or, despite it all -- today is still worth remembering."

What I got instead was a far, far FAR cry from that. Harumph.

You could not say anything. Or you could use the opportunity to say something....(how helpful of me, I know!)


I guess the more important question is -- given your journey -- what are you comfortable conveying to your husband that matches where you are?


M:32,H 32
T:10, M5
BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger
H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15
Served D Papers: 10/15
Divorced: 11/15