This is more of a reply to the topic than the most recent post. Hope that's ok. I've been visiting, reading, and posting for more than a year. That was when I first discovered the site. Tried to motivate my LD W with the book and an honest discussion. Things changed for a bit but are now back to what I now realize is normal for her. She seems to only want to do what she wants to do when she wants to do it. I can't really complain in the sense that at least we do ML occasionally, not like some of you folks who are counting the distance in years. But I must be REALLY HD because I want things that are simply not going to happen. Simple things, like looking at and admiring every part of her. Went to a reading of "Vagina Monologues" and I really related to Bob, the guy in "Because He Liked To Look At It." She does not want me to. At all. Ever. Does not seem to want to be pleasured. She can be great at giving pleasure to me, but a lot of my pleasure comes from pleasuring her (if you know what I mean) and that is pretty much not an option.
Have to close...I'm at work and have to tend to customers. But I'm interested in any comments and if this is the appropriate place to air my concerns.
