Just keeping things real here. I can only trust what you post here and hope you do have the humility to ask what you can do to improve your situation. Take Vertex's situation for example...he's opened up and admitted to doing some really not nice things. He's genuinely asking for assistance on some of the ways he can turn around his situation.
What I appreciate Vertex the most is that he's been very open from the very beginning and is not hiding the fact that he's done some really awful things. Vertex has outlined some things that he's taking ownership of and we all see that.
Sometimes with you, we cannot always be sure which is why we sometimes ask the hard questions. Some posters leave out crucial information that we discover later and then go "bang! that's the real problem." Then the real work begins.
Mozza, I have nothing against you. You have a lot going for you. It is the omissions or not fully acknowledging some things that gets one in trouble here in the DB forums.
We are hard at times because we do key in on specific areas that are painful and make you look at it with open eyes...not flinching away or avoiding it just simple because it's too much or too painful.
We do this to SUPPORT you in making the necessary self-improvement changes to become a better person, better father, better spouse...
I want nothing but the best for you, your kiddos and W. I do want to see your family restored. Ayep...I do very much so.
