I am new to the board and a strugling HD spouse. After almost 2 years of an unsatisfying, practically non-existent sex life my LD H and I seem to be unable to communicate about the lack of sex in our marriage. He is full of excuses and simply unresponsive to my problem...
Why should this be my problem to deal with on my own????
I resent that. At any rate - any suggestions on beginning a constructive dialog and reaching some resolutions would be greatly appreciated. Not only does the lack of sex and intamcay make me feel emotionally distant, but the lack of communication about it does too.
I have been considering sleeping in our guest room because it is so frustrating to sleep with him (feel him naked against me) and not have any sex - month after month. What would my motive be for this??? To get him to take this situatin more seriously or to get some peaceful sleep?? Probably both...
