How do I leave my ILs out of my situation? My wife and kids live with them and my MIL is the official liaison for any communication about the kids.

Does DB advise against writing letters to a WAW if the WAW walked away due to abuse and emotional affairs from her H? That's the situation I'm in. My W has no OM--she left because she couldn't put up with my emotional/verbal abuse and some flirting I unfortunately did with her friend (things I am getting help for now).

I feel awful and ashamed just typing all that out.

Me: 29 W: 29
S: 7 S: 4
M: 8
BD 10/15/14 (Order of Protection)
D filed 10/14
Letting God change my life. Doing the hard work to be the H my W always needed and to be the father my children deserve.