HP....thank you SOOOO very much for your message. Helped give me some support and some things to think about.
Over the last year...one thing that's really bothered me is that my WAW has said that sex was the #1 biggest problem in our M.
But when we got to that issue in MC...she didn't want us to go to MC together anymore. She and our MC said we should do some individual C. I later figured out that WAW had already decided it was over after just 5 months of MC. Then she dragged things out 2 more months before talking about D.
The whole time we've been S...I've been the initiator, the rejected one, etc. And the fact that I went to see a sex therapist hasn't made a dent.
Until I started getting blunt with her...I think she still thought it was all my fault for just about everything. Now I think is the time to talk about what I want (present/future) sexually.
She's already told me that I gave her the best sex ever...so it doesn't jive for me why she's so hot to date other men now and who knows what before she's even filed for D. It's like she wants to find out I'm the right guy by dating...just tough on me I guess.
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu
