"So the 100% accountability approach to DBing is right. It's just dangerous to those that have allowed themselves to be brainwashed into thinking there is something wrong with them."
Funny that little post you just put up is exactly what landed you here in the first place. You were the one who said that you pressured her for sex, had a pornography issue, had expectations of a "perfect" M, etc.
DB just pointed that out to you. You just never moved on past that. DB says to do what works and build on it. Haven't seen much building on your part. That is all on you and your personal choice. Don't blame the site or the people who have tried to help you.
You didn't have to come to this "realization" now. You could have done so at any time.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.