The Black Knight Lost in the End

[Lifes Twists]

I would not expect any witnesses to be allowed unless your attorney is notified in advance. You are getting yourself worked up and making a mountain out of an ant hill. I did the same my first time. I realized afterwards 2 things,

1) my lawyer was a dud
2) I had way over thought what was going to happen.

Most of the time in the court house will be spent between your lawyer and his. When you actually go into the court room it will be you, smokie and your two attorneys standing there the judge will look over the papers presented, ask a few questions that you have both read and agree to what has been presented. and that will be it, about 10 minutes at most. I don't believe this is a full court hearing at this point. It will be to see where you two are in the divorce process and to try and move it along if required. It will be a lot of smoke and mirrors. Just demand what is right and a little bit as I outlined above. the jockeying will be between the two lawyers. If you don't agree with what your lawyer presents to you then refuse to go along with it. Don't be afraid to tell the judge if you don't agree.