We have a shared checking account which we both have direct deposits feeding into. The other night, as I tried falling asleep, I was thinking about detaching and ways to do that. I'm someone that obsessively checks my bank account, but really don't like seeing what she's been up to. There's nothing bad on there, it feels like spying, not something I want to do.
I was thinking about closing the account, giving her the lion's share of the money (it's not that much). I think this would help me detach, but not sure that's it's a step I want to take. On one hand, it might help me move on and even show her that. On the other hand, it seems a bit counterproductive to the overall goal of saving my marriage.
Any advice? Good idea/stupid idea?
Me 23, Her 21 1S 2 M <1yr, T 7 WAW: She moved out 11/15/2014 She started D process 1/29/15
