He does not want to sleep with me again. We were having sex when we first split and he put an end to it because he felt guilty about giving me mixed messages. Also, he's talked about this before -- great sex, details about times we did it, so on and so forth. It's never gone past that.

No, if he wanted sex, he'd be asking for it; trust me. He'd either be saying, "Hey, wanna meet up" or at the very least he'd be hinting that he wants me to initiate an invite for it. He's doing neither.

In fact, I said that if we had both been different people X amount of months ago, we'd probably still be enjoying the amazing sex; then I said we'll have to mourn it like at a funeral. His response? "LOL! Probably!"

SO: I have no idea what his purpose is. I can't puzzle it out and I'm not going to bother.

As for the other, I don't feel particularly upset I shared with him the other stuff (changes, etc). He's a thinker. He'll ingest it later when he's laying in bed trying to fall asleep. It was a seed planted with calculated purpose.


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies