When WAW first left, she told me she felt relieved and would also feel angry at me. I remember she was posting all these happy pictures on Facebook, going out, living it up. That destroyed me. I forced myself to not go on Facebook for weeks on end.
Eventually she became sad and missed me. I completely left her alone to get to this stage.
I had one coaching session with Laurie. She was really great and helped calm me. I also read DR several times and other relationship books as well.
My saving grace was coming here just to vent because I felt so alone.