Point well taken. I think I was just trying to say that I'm NOT like any of the men my WAW has been with before...and so the same things won't work on me.
BUT...I'm going to be the assertive guy she wants me to be...and be honest and tell her what in fact does turn me on. Just in case she's still wondering....
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu