And, kml, nothing would surprise me. He has never expressed a desire to sell this place, he does seem to really love the animals. But he's done so many other things out of character, so who knows?
As for resenting me for "lollygagging", (that's sucking on lollipops while simultaneously gagging, a skill I am known for), I'm sure he DOES resent it.
And that's totally HIS problem, isn't it?
To bad if he wants me to get a job so he'll be paying less alimony. All the more reason to drag my feet, sorry to say.
He can want all he wants, resent all he wants, spew all he wants and try to manipulate every which way, all he wants.
I am set in my plan and there isn't much he can do about it. I have a really good lawyer, by the way. I know my rights and I am choosing to exercise them.
After all, I didn't ask for this. But you can be damn well sure I'm going to make the best of it! ------------------------------------------------------------
And speaking of "making the best of it", a GORGEOUS, 6'4'' tall Belgian "boy" with a voice that makes me melt and some great dancing chemistry between us, just invited himself to my place over next weekend because there some area events we will both be attending and he has no car at the moment.
Ummm... I had to decline (killing me!) but it's nice that he wants to hang out. But--GUBU will be here, and even if he wasn't I have stated that I will not have men in the house out of respect for him.
PS: We are only friends, he has a GF and knows I'm married. But we do get along quite well, really enjoy each other. And I love when we're out dancing and I see the look on the younger girls' faces when he opens his mouth with his liquid voice and that Belgian accent.... They actually swoon a bit!
SO--go me! We are having dinner and drinks together next week, surrounding a dance event. Normally there would be a group but he is currently car-less, so I'm the driver. Don't worry, everything is on the up and up! But some swooning? Yeah, I could do with some of that!
