Okay, so we've been talking via text all day. So much for me ignoring him. :P

I blew a whole ton of sunshine up his ass. About how life is nearly perfect and I'm so happy with where I've landed. About how I'm changing me for the better and doing X, Y and Z.

I know we're not supposed to point out our changes, but it was done in a way of, "I know, can you believe that now I'm....blah blah blah? And I started going to [X activity] and I'm doing [Y interest]! It's like I've done a total 180 in the last four months, I'm so totally [insert positive crap here]!"

He came back with how he's happy for/proud of me, and I'm an awesome person and I deserve the best and once I find someone that has everything I'm looking for they'll get "an amazing woman".

Whatever, jerk. That was you, and I could be YOUR amazing woman, but your head is still up your ass. :P

Then he said he felt like we held each other back, to which I told him the only one that can hold me back is me and I'm making me happy and he should do the same.

THEN....he felt the need to point out that the sex between us was amazing. And why. AGAIN. But I ignored that and glossed it over.


I dunno. OW must not be engaging him if he feels the need to go here with me. I don't know what his game is.

The rest of the convo has been mostly chatty BS, about nothing in particular.


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies