DBrookie, You sound a lot like my husband, which I truly appreciate as I get older. He's more turned on by touch, smell, and whispers in the ear. He likes looking and will get turned, but it's those other 3 that really get his engine going. He'd rather have me in soft silk than a revealing scratchy lace bustier. When I asked him once why he married me, one of his replies was that he loved the way I smell (the combination of my favorite perfume and my own scent). I can whisper loving and/or naughty things in his ear and he's mine to do with as I please. And, as I said, I appreciate this more with each passing year. I may fret about the changes that come about with aging, but he'll lie next to me stroking my skin while telling me how soft it feels (and soft skin is something I can easily maintain no matter how old I get).
As for visual stimulation, we're both more turned on by eye contact while ML. On the other hand, there is a certain part of my body that he seems to (and says) he really enjoys looking at, which is probably one reason why he prefers to ML in the day or with the lights on.
Michelle (who decided not to wait for her husband's birthday to get the Liberator but has already ordered it just because she loves him and knows it will make him blissfully happy)
Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. Will Rogers
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. C. S. Lewis
