Patience, patience, patience is the key it seems, but, when forced to put a smile on your face and put up patiently, day after day, with a spouse who is acting like a selfish spoiled teenager who could give a crap about your needs or wants...how do you all manage the anger and resentment that naturally builds up? I can understand what place the resentment is coming from and why, but, as time goes forward, it is getting harder and harder for me to keep it in check. It is building inside of me and I worry about the damage it will cause to our marriage. How do you all handle it?