T-mom
Sorry you are here. I don't really know what to add for your situation, but I do read it and can relate to the pain you are feeling.

Keep up the fight and take care of yourself.

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015