Ran across this and adding here to my thread as a reminder to myself.......
Be prepared to be painted as the bad guy. It's how they justify their behavior. Because if you weren't so terrible, then they'd be terrible people for doing this to a decent person. Can't have that, so they demonize us.
Don't take her actions personally.
Someone said, I think the wise Sandi2: "Q-TIP" = Quit Taking It Personally.
Most of the time, it's not really about you, it's ALL ABOUT THEM.
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
