Maybe she was thinking you were the typical neanderthal male(like me) that gets turned on by a stiff breeze. She saw you like the other guys, as full of animal lust. Your just a little more refined, you actually wanted a little romance, and their are probably a bizillion women that would LOVE that. Have you tried to explaint that you needed romance a little more then the average guy. Have you explained that it was not her looks, it was the very essense of her soul that turned you on. Let her know that you were looking to romance her a little before the sex. But also, maybe she WANTS the animal lust to poke its head out once in a while, maybe she just wanted to be taken on occassion.
