Bright, Even though the bus event was different for your h, he may not have given any thought about it. You are working and so are his other friends, thus the bus. It's just another blip on the radar screen for him, something new for him to try. He may very well be trying different things to see what works for him and if that's the case, well, you just might see a lot of different things going on, but it's not a sign that it's over and done w/yet. It's not over until the fat lady sings and from where I'm sitting, I don't think he's going to do much of anything because he's very content w/the way things are working for him. As for how you feel about them, he's not on the same playing field w/you right now. He's assuming that you are okay w/everything and unless you say something differently, he'll not give it a second thought.
As for D papers, unless you file them, I don't get a sense of him doing that from your postings. You are still searching for signs of him waking up. As I pointed out earlier, he may very well be a turtle in this race and it could take him some time to get to the other side. Don't get discouraged, look at this situation a different way, it's given you an opportunity to try new things, make new friends and you've gotten a job that you like. It's given you an opportunity to find yourself too. If your h sat down and spoke w/you today, he would see a different Bright, a more independent and stronger Bright. You would be a stranger to him, just as he is to you right now. So, for now, let him go. Allow the man upstairs to have him for a while. Your focus has to be on number one...YOU!
When the time is right, all will be revealed to you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
