One more thing, put that "little girl" who is hurt and wants to avoid conflict back in the box and put that box up on a shelf. It's time to pull the grown woman out of the box and show some anger over all of this. The anger will help spur you on and get through this. The hurt little girl is paralyzed and can't focus and is trying to be everything and please everyone. The only person that needs to be okay and pleased is yourself. You are number one and if you don't look out for number one, no one else will, not your family, friends or co-workers....it's time that Heather fight for what she wants.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
