Thanks for the direction GoatGal.

Perfect timing on the locking of my last thread!

I'm really starting to think there might be something in it. It had been suggested a couple of times in the past but since BD its been suggested as a possibility by:

People on here
A good friend
A clinical psychologist
My IC
The psychologist who was providing feedback on my leadership psychometrics

That's starting to feel like a pattern I should take seriously.

When I've looked into I can sort of fit some of the descriptions but I don't want to read too much into it as whether it is the case or not I'm not sure it makes much difference to what I need to do.

Having said that I don't think I should ignore it either.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress