Mindsin - Part 7 (Dark times)

[mindsin]

Another thing -- she's been wanting to spend more and more time with the children (without my presence). She says she and the kids have a great time, just the 3 of them.

That's what she says. Reality 'may' be different.

Is this her way of mentally preparing for life as a divorced mom, to prove to herself that everything will be OK? Should I encourage, discourage, or simply back off altogether? Some of these future plans involve taking the kids for days at a time. I don't feel comfortable with that. I don't want to be days without my children, if it's unnecessary.