At this point my wife is moving out soon and has recently picked up her relationship with an ex. I have excellent advice but seem to keep digging myself a whole.
I can visualise where I want to be but struggling with getting there. I'm getting much more awareness of who I am and what makes me me - the work now is to learn to like that and overcome the fears , guilt, and other issues so that I can be the man I should be (and hopefully husband my W wants)
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
