Quote: I'm guessing that your the kind of guy that actually uses BOTH side of his brain, the creative as well as logical side of the brain. Most of us guys are stuck in one side of the brain.....and we really struggle to get to the creative, verbal side of the brain.
You would be correct. I'm a right-brain left-handed guy that does a lot of work on the creative side of my brain but I also have developed a good sense of logic. I didn't go to law school but I now work in a field where I have to be creative/logical...and I've taught about design and creativity. So yes...I'm a different animal.
Quote: Is it that your wife was not romantic enough for you? Have you ever tried to explain this to the wife?
Yes and no. My WAW would always say that she never had a problem having guys want her. But I guess those guys were not like me...and in a sense...that's why she choose me right?
I will take the blame for not explaining this...and it was something that I really discovered after seeing a sex therapist on my own. But I haven't really gotten a chance to talk much about it...WAW doesn't want to even talk about sex or our issues right now.
And in the past...it would have been very difficult to approach this because I didn't quite understand how I worked. And saying to my W..."Honey, you're naked body doesn't really do it for me but your voice does." That would have been a huge blow to her...and I can understand that.
I love my WAW's body. It's the sexiest thing on the planet and I'd take it over any supermodel or anyone else in the world. But it's not the spark on my ignition switch. It's the car that I love taking a ride in...but it's her voice/brain that starts the engine. Vrooommmm Vrooommm.
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu